Oneness and Empaths

One of the clues about the growing awareness of oneness is the extreme experience of empaths. Empaths are highly sensitive people who pick up on emotions and feelings from others.

One of the most important things any empath can do is to learn to differentiate their emotions from those of others.  

Some of us have to really focus and concentrate on a person or a place to pick up the feelings of that person or place.  Empaths do it naturally without any effort.

So empaths have to be really aware of their own feelings and emotions and then acknowledge, okay, this is who I am and this is what I feel.  And then when another set of feelings or emotions hit them when they are thinking of someone or someplace, they will know that those feelings are NOT theirs.

The key is, who or what are they thinking of, when a different set of emotions like sadness or depression or pain is experienced.  If they are not having these issues, then it is more than likely the person or place they are thinking about.

Sometimes I can “see’ or “feel” a person in my mind.  These come at odd times when I am not thinking of anyone. I “know” then that this person who I see, is thinking of me. 

But since I am not an empath, I don’t feel that person’s emotions. But I know that person is thinking of me.  And sometimes I do get guidance on what that person is thinking of.

What I would tell the empath is, if they get visions of a person and experience that person’s emotions, they should just go into a neutral mode and say, I am watching them like watching a movie, so I am neutral.   

With practice, and by switching consciousness from participant to observer mode, gradually the more “heavy duty” emotions should go away.

In my early days I would get literally pain in different parts of my body when I encountered people who were not well. Nowadays I am more detached so it doesn’t happen anymore.

I remember driving on roads where accidents had occurred. I would experience pain like a sharp nail poking my toes. These events have stopped happening to me. 

Let me relate a real life situation in Malaysia about my experience with a highly sensitive person.

Shan is only 15 years old and is a highly sensitive person and for quite some time she has been experiencing severe headaches, pain in her feet, and an inability to concentrate in school.  The last issue has been disturbing the parents and her school teachers.

You see, highly sensitive people pick up thought-forms from people and their surroundings.  If people are happy and cheerful, then highly sensitive people will pick up on these emotions and feel happy and cheerful. 

However if these thought-forms are unhappy and stressful, then highly sensitive people will feel unhappy and stressed.  In extreme situations, if they encounter confused people, they will actually feel confused as well.  

Imagine if you’re an extremely sensitive person and you’re standing next to a mad man.  You will start feeling mad yourself as mad thoughts start running through your head. 

If any of you remember the old Star Trek TV series, there is one lady officer who is an empath - empath meaning sensitive to other people’s emotional states.  By tuning into other people’s emotions, the empath can find out what other people are feeling and thinking.

So how does this work out.

For example, if a highly sensitive person goes to a hospital, more often than not that person will start feeling sick.  If they are in front of a sick patient, they will experience the feelings and emotions of that sick person.

Shopping complexes with all their noise and buzz will give highly sensitive people headaches and confusion.  Funerals and graveyards?  Well, what do you think?

Highly sensitive people need to either be alone or be surrounded by happy and cheerful people. Then they will be able to cope with their sensitivity.

Shan a highly sensitive person was at a school in Kuala Lumpur where hundreds of students were about to have their exams.  She said the stress and tension was unbearable.  She started having a severe headache and she had to move away quickly. 

So emotions and feelings become very tangible to highly sensitive people. 

The issue for highly sensitive people is to learn to differentiate between their personal feelings and the feelings of others who are in their personal space.

By learning to separate his or her own emotions from others, that person will know that the aggression or confusion does not originate from them.  This is very crucial to know.

“Oh that confusion or aggression does not come from me, It comes from the person standing next to me.”  This is very important to remember.

This situation can happen anywhere and worsens in public places at high density mass transport systems like LRTS, MRTS, Train stations, shopping complexes, colleges, schools.  Anywhere where there are lots and lots of people.

Unfortunately most of the human race is walking around carrying all their emotional garbage with them. And highly sensitive people pick up on these emotions!

So, high sensitivity is an issue that has bewildered many psychologists and psychiatrists who have no idea about the energy issues facing highly sensitive persons - unless their training includes energy medicine.

It is not their fault since they have not encountered these issues before.  And all they can do is to counsel the patients based on their training and prescribe some medication.

Let me explain how we have come about helping highly sensitive people.

Shan is 15 years old and is sitting for her exams.  In the past whenever she sits for exams, she will be paralysed by fear and no matter how well she has prepared for her exams, she finds it hard to answer the questions.

Shan says she cannot concentrate or focus during her exams and that is why she finds it difficult to answer the questions.

In the past few months, her parents and teachers have been concerned about her school results as Shan is a bright and intelligent girl.  Yet she is not doing well in her school tests and exams.

In Malaysia parents and teachers want their students to do well and scores of B’s and C’s are not encouraged.  Only A’s are acceptable and unfortunately that is the way it is in our current system.

Shan is so sensitive that most days she comes home with headaches and sometimes pain in her feet.

So how do we help Shan? We had a request from the mother to take a look at her while she sits for her exams.

So we decided that with the help of a clairvoyant we should be able to find out what is going on.  This is happening in real time.

Day One

At the exact time that Shan is sitting for her exam, the clairvoyant takes a look at her.

Clairvoyant:

I can see Shan seated in the school hall with many other students.  And Shan’s head is surrounded by a thick black cloud.

Note: The black clouds are collecting around her head and they come from all the stress and tension of the other school children taking the exam. 

We all know that every student feels stressed during an exam.  So if there are 200 students taking an exam with Shan, their emotions of stress and tension begin to flow towards Shan and surround her.  She is like a lightning rod collecting all the negative thought-forms from the hall.

It is very likely that her own stress is acting like a magnet to attract all these thought-forms but how do we advise Shan not to be stressed when almost every student sitting for an exam experiences the same stressful situation?

On that very day, we decide to look at crystal therapy for Shan.

We have been doing some research on the best way to help Shan and after trying various methods we feel that we need a holistic solution and include more than one therapy. We are now going to experiment with black quartz tourmaline crystals.  

In the crystal literature, black tourmaline has been used for hundreds of years to repel any kind of negative thought-forms and creates an energy shield around that person.

The quartz black tourmaline comes as pendants that one can wear around the neck or as a necklace. The source of our black tourmaline does not have necklaces so we have to get pendants instead.

The clairvoyant and I check on the number of black tourmalines that Shan requires and on investigation we get that Shan needs 6 black tourmalines and 2 amethysts.  Amethysts are known to provide the wearer with calmness and are known as crystals for tranquillity.

We also check for Shan’s mother and we find out that she needs 3 black tourmaline pendants and one amethyst.

For the clairvoyant’s daughter and we find out that she needs 4 black tourmalines and one amethyst.

On that day I purchase the crystals and pass them on to Shan and her mother after cleansing them and programming them for protection.

Day 2

Shan goes to school wearing the 6 black tourmalines and 2 amethysts. We do a real time check on her aura.

Clairvoyant:

I can see Shan in the school hall.  There is a layer of very bright white light around her that is around 15 inches to 16 inches thick.  And around that bright white shield is a lot of darkness, but the dark clouds are not able to penetrate the bright white shield.

I can see her writing and answering her questions. She appears to be more confident and doesn’t look confused.

Day 3

The clairvoyant and I decide to take a look at the mother who is teaching at a university.  The mother frequently experiences migraines at the university.  She is wearing the 3 black tourmalines and on that day she forgets to wear the amethyst. 

She says that on the first day, she felt quite good but on the second day, she felt a bit blur.  So was that because she was wearing too many black tourmalines?  Was she experiencing an overdose of energy?  I decided to conduct an experiment to energetically remove one black tourmaline.

Clairvoyant:                                                                                                                   

I can see the mother.  She is feeling slightly tense.  But there is a shield of bright white light that is 12 inches around her.  Around her there is one and a half feet of darkness and two feet of grey energy.

Note:  The darkness and grey negative thought-forms of people around her at the university.

I energetically removed one of the black tourmalines and leave her with two.  

 As I gave that intention, the clairvoyant said that the shield suddenly started getting thinner and streams of darkness began to penetrate the shield and goes into her aura.

Immediately I stopped my intention to energetically remove the black tourmaline and returned it into her aura. 

Clairvoyant:

Andrew, the shield is getting thicker again and the streams of darkness are being repelled. But she is still feeling tense.

I said okay and decided to energetically place an amethyst – the crystal for tranquillity and a blue crystal into her aura.

Clairvoyant:

The mother is now feeling calmer and more relaxed.

I had to tell the mother to remember to use the amethyst and she could also wear the blue labradorite crystal if she wanted to.  Both promote calmness and tranquillity.  

I also find that green ammonite is good at protecting your aura but the downside is that green ammonite is heaty and makes you thirsty so you are gulping water quite often.

Labradorite is a blue quartz crystal that helps people who teach or communicate.  It encourages them to be relaxed while speaking and also to express themselves well and speak with authority

So mission accomplished.

The big picture for highly sensitive people is that we are all one.  If I can feel your pain on my body, then I will learn not to inflict pain on others and start treating people with love and compassion – because I now know what pain feels like. And I will not willingly inflict pain on others.

The answer is quite obvious then, we have to learn to live in this world, loving more, forgiving more and hurting less.

So are you a highly sensitive person or do you know of any sensitive persons, they can be helped.

Crystal therapy is not the only method that can help and I am sure that there are others.  

Crystal therapy can be used with aura soma therapy (dark red pomander) and aromatherapy or essential oils like frankincense.    

As a total solution, they work well in treating highly sensitive people.

I spoke to Shan and asked her how she felt in school.  The exams will carry on for the next two weeks.  She said she felt much better and could concentrate on answering the questions.

If you read the crystal literature, hematite, which is a form of natural magnet is recommended for those who do maths.  Apparently hematite helps to improve brain function. I think I need it more!

This write-up is based on my own personal experience and gratitude is expressed to the clairvoyant and others who have allowed us to share this.

Dr. Elaine Aron is one of the few medical professionals treating patients who are highly sensitive. She has authored a book about her experiences.